“Money can’t ease the pain” — The mother of three children in the Sanson fιre speaks out after receiving nearly $400,000 in donations. Her heartfelt words have brought many to tears
Chelsey Field with her baby Goldie. Photo: Supplied
A Give a Little page set up for the mother of three children who died in the Sanson house fire has now raised nearly $400,000.
Chelsey Field’s children August, 7, Hugo, 5, and Goldie, 1 died in the fire on November 15.
The children’s father Dean Field was also found dead at the scene in what police are calling a suspected murder suicide.
Nine days on from the fire, and over $392k has been raised to support Field.
On the page, it says “We are coming together to create a safety net for her [Field]”.
“Our goal is to provide her with the space and security needed to grieve in solitude, without the added stress of financial ruin.”
On Friday, Field released a statement saying her “babies did not deserve this”.
She said she enjoyed quality time with her children and had so much fun together.
Chelsey Field’s children Hugo, August and Goldie. Photo: Supplied
“I will forever cherish all these special memories.”
The mother-of-three said she also lost the ashes of her stillborn Iris who would have been nine this year.
“I have lost her ashes, photos and all her special keepsakes. I know my darlings will be reunited with their big sister.”
Field said the incident has left her heartbroken and devastated.
Chelsey Field shares heartbreak after deaths of her three children
She also thanked “the many thousands of people” who have been “so generous”.
“I have felt the aroha of those around me, in my community and around the country. This support has given me the strength to carry on in honour of the short lives my children lived and the impressions they left on so many people’s hearts.”
The funeral for the three children will take place at Crossroads Church in Palmerston North on Tuesday.
Police have confirmed they are treating the incident as a homicide.
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Details of the funeral for the three children who died in a house fire in the Manawatū town of Sanson have been released.
August, Hugo and Goldie died last weekend, in what was being treated as a murder-suicide.
Their father, Dean Field, also died.
The service for the children would be a day to celebrate their lives and attendees were asked to wear bright colours.
In a funeral notice released by Beauchamp Funeral Home in Palmerston North a service for the children was announced for next Tuesday at 10.30am.
The funeral home would be livestreaming the service for those who could not attend in person.
The notice said the siblings were “beautiful angels taken too soon”, who would be sadly missed by their mother and grandparents.
“United with big sister Iris in heaven. Loved beyond measure.”
Mother speaks out for first time
Hugo, Goldie and August. Photo: Supplied
In a statement released on Friday morning, Chelsey Field said her children were her world and she doesn’t want their deaths to be the most defining factor of their lives.
“My babies were my absolute world. I have been a stay-at-home Mum since I had Hugo in 2020. Before that, I was an early childhood teacher and August came to work with me every day, and I am so glad I got this time with my darlings.
“I enjoyed so much quality time with them; trips to gymnastics, music groups, playgroups and play dates with friends. We had so much fun together and many holidays away. I will forever cherish all these special memories.”
She said she would cherish the special memories she had with her children.
Her dog also died in the blaze and the ashes of her stillborn daughter, Iris, were lost with the destruction of her house.
“Not only did I lose my children and my home that day, but I also lost our beloved miniature schnauzer, Marlo, who would have been six this Christmas. She was the children’s best friend, and one of Goldie’s first words was dog,” she said.
August (at six months) and mum Chelsey Field. Photo: Supplied
“This incident has left me heartbroken and devastated. My children did not deserve this,” she said.
Field acknowledged the first responders to the fire and those who had helped her since saying their support had been greatly appreciated.
She also extended thanks to all the New Zealanders who had helped her during such a difficult time.
“I have felt the aroha of those around me, in my community and around the country. This support has given me the strength to carry on in honour of the short lives my children lived and the impressions they left on so many people’s hearts.”
Field went on to pay tribute to each of her three children.
She said her eldest, August, was “a happy, kind and outgoing boy” who loved sport, particularly football.
August would have turned eight next Thursday, she said, and “was looking forward to his birthday party at Timezone with five of his best friends”.
“He loved going to the stock cars, fishing at the beach and playing with his best friend Levi.”
August loved his siblings and would get his baby sister Goldie out of bed in the morning and give her a bottle, she said.
Hugo, August and Goldie and the memorial to their older sister, Iris. Photo: Supplied
He and his brother Hugo “were always glued at the hip, either wrestling or playing outside making huts, digging in the sandpit or playing on the trampoline”.
Hugo had started school at the beginning of term two and “was taking it in his stride”, she said.
“He was so kind, thoughtful and considerate, he would always come and tell me ‘Mum I got Goldie’s nappy and wipes ready for you, Mum I put your bag by the car for you’.”
He had begun to read confidently, was learning to count and loved writing stories, she said.
Hugo (at 12 months) and Chelsey. Photo: Supplied
Hugo loved dinosaurs and Hot Wheels, as well as going to the beach, fishing and riding his motorbike.
He also loved his little sister and was “a doting big brother to Goldie”.
Chelsey Field described Goldie as “my special little girl I had waited so long for”.
“She had just gotten her top two teeth and was pulling herself up to standing and attempting to coast around furniture.
“Her first words were ‘Hi’ and ‘dog’, she even said ‘Marlo’ the dog’s name before she said Mum.”
Goldie loved going to a weekly music group and dancing.
“She loved to have big snuggly cuddles and her brothers were the best things in the world to her.”
She went to the boys’ school each morning and afternoon and “had a massive fan club with the younger girls there”, Field said.
The family dog Marlo also died in the blaze, Marlo was one of Goldie’s first words. Photo: Supplied
A Givealittle page set up by friends of Field has raised more than $348,000 on Friday morning.
On Tuesday, police said a forensic examination of the scene was ongoing, and it would take some time to get the results once that examination had been completed.
“A team of Police staff are working hard to get answers for the family, but I want to stress to the public that we will not have these answers immediately,” police said.
“We would like to hear from anybody who may have information that could assist with our investigation.”